My ob appointment is in 5 days, on Monday, but that seems so far away! I'll have an ultrasound, and hopefully we'll be able to see a heartbeat (I'll be 6 weeks, 2 days). I've got quite a few questions for my ob about how comfortable she is with minimal intervention during labor and delivery so we'll see if I'm going to stick with her, or switch to a different ob who would be more natural birth friendly (and I've got some leads on that). I have found out which hospital in the area is most natural birth friend, and she does have privileges there. Whether I switch obs or not, I have decided where I'll deliver. There aren't any midwives in my city and I don't want really want to drive 45 minutes for prenatal care or delivery, especially since I'll probably have the little boy I nanny at most of my appointments. I've contacted a couple of local doulas, but I'll have to see whether D is willing to spend the money.
I called to find out about our insurance coverage for maternity and I learned that for 2010, since we already met our deductible and out of pocket maximum for the year due to my surgery, all we really have to cover is copays, ultrasounds will be covered at 100%. For 2011, we will have to deal again with meeting the deductible, and then they will pay 80%.
When we were on the way home from our friends' daughter's baptism, D brought up how he is excited and ready to meet our little one, but he also wants to experience all of the excitement of going through the pregnancy. He can't wait until our ultrasound, and he's really ready to get out of the first trimester. He's a bit freaked out by the fact that the loss rate is higher in the first trimester. He has started reading the blog somewhat regularly, so if you have any reassurance that would be great.
D and I will be calling Baby Blondie SC until we have the gender ultrasound. SC comes from the boy's name and girl's name that we have picked out. We picked out names about 3 months after we started dating, so we've had them decided for a while. I probably won't share the name until after the birth.