Waiting for AF to end

I'm on day 9 of my cycle and AF is still around.  I'm ready for this week to be over.  I haven't been o-ing until CD 21-22 so I don't expect it until around Thanksgiving.  I'm not sure how I feel about this cycle since SIL gets married in another state right around when I would be due.  DH and I still plan to try since whatever is meant to happen will.  DH left for business today and won't be back until Friday.  I've got my yearly OBGYN appt. Wednes. so I should probably mention my 9 day AFs (4 cycles now).