Monday, September 21, 2009

Another first cousin once removed

My cousin and his wife are having there third child. They have a 2 1/2 year old and a 8 month old. It's great for them, but I'm so jealous. They'll have had 2 kids since we started trying and we can't even have one. They live on the other side of the country, but it's still going to be hard to see online.

The good news on this cycle is no spotting so far and I'm at 9DPO, but I'm not pregnant since we didn't use any of the days of fertility. I'm ready for it to be December and surgery time.


  1. I know how it feels to see others get to parenthood so effortlessly. My heart is hurting for you. I am with you on wishing Dec. will hurry up and you will get to be well!!! I have been wanting to tell you that in the months before my surgery, I made sure we avoided during times of so called fertility so that I could finally be well.
    Praying for you my friend and I will keep you posted on retreats!

  2. Ouch.

    My best friend is pregnant with her third, her second child since we started TTC.

    Sending you hugs and prayers!

  3. I know how much this hurts. Big hugs to you.

  4. I'm ssooooooo ready for Dec. for you, too!!

    Arrrggg about the pg news.

  5. December can't come FAST enough!!!!!!

  6. I'm sorry. I know that it is difficult to get that news - no matter how far away they live. I hope December comes soon for you. I agree with your decision to wait for now. One time we were going to get some hormone testing done and then come up with a game plan. I got preg. before I could do the tests, but then miscarried. It was 8 months later before I could get the test done - it felt like there was so much wasted time. You need to get your body healthy first so that you have the best chance for a full-term preg.

  7. it just never gets any easier to hear "the announcement."

    prayers and hugs... come on december!!!